Even though this is a blog about business and marketing matters, I felt that I should write about this no matter what. Because Depressions’ next target could be you, it could be me, we never know!
Why am I suddenly addressing this issue? On 18th of December 2017, Kim Jonghyun who was the main vocalist of popular South Korean boy group committed suicide due to high level of depression. As a massive fan of Kpop, I myself did not want to believe the news. However, singer left all his family, fans and loved ones. After reflecting again and again I realized that he is not the only one who suffered and still suffering. As a singer, he was successful, he had fame, and we can say he had everything, but not the happiness. This might apply to lots of people around us including you who are reading this right now. You might be a marketer, might be a student, might be anyone who trying hard. So these words are for you.
As humans living in 21st century make a living is hard. To get a job, we have to study. Then have to find a job. Then more other things come to the life. It’s like we are fulfilling all stages of Maslow’s hierarchy. While fulfilling all these needs and wants we have to face problems. And it is common. But can everyone overcome these problems?
For instance, to get a good grade in an exam we have to study. In the end some get good marks, some get bad marks. Those who got bad marks; it happened not because they did not study well, it might be the luck. Even you got a bad mark, don’t blame yourself; tell yourself that you did well. When you have good mark, be satisfied with it, be proud of yourself, and don’t cry for the two marks you lost.
People who are working in marketing field have quite bit high risk of going under depression. Not only marketers but for everyone this is valid. Because when working to meet deadlines, sometimes you have to sacrifice your personal life, this can lead to high stress and depression. The outcome of your actual workload you have to do can be the depression. So don’t make things hard for yourself. End of the day it is all about things what makes you happy.
However, if you ever feel depressed or currently suffering from depression please do not keep it yourself. Talk to someone who you can trust, get rid of your burden you are having. If you are not capable doing that, please ask for medical support. Do not even think about harm yourself.
I know that in western countries, we can openly about it and there are people who going to support when you are suffering. However, this is totally different in some Asian countries. As a Sri Lankan, I know that there are thousand and plus who are anguish because of depression, even they tend not to talk about it. Because society might label you as a ‘mentally disable person’. If you get that label, it will really hard to find a job and also will aid to increase depression. It same goes with Korea, where has one of highest suicide rate in the world. People who are in charge such as government, politicians and all industries and as responsible human beings we all have responsibility to address this issue.
Even if you are living in a country where you can’t talk about depression or any other mental problem you have, I really recommend you to ask for medical help. Because, mental health is sometimes important than physical health. If you know someone who is suffering, please guide them to get the help they need. Because they might be keeping everything to themselves. Most people who harmed themselves these days previously hinted through their social media, so keep an eye on your friends and family as well.
When you end your day, when you go home tell yourself that you worked hard, you are lucky to be a part of this planet. Think about all positive things. Try stress relieving methods and finally do what makes you happy. Harming yourself will not end your pain. As a Buddhist, I believe that suicide is not reinforcement for your pain. However, I am not going to give any of my religious beliefs or views here. By harming you will also make your friends, family and all loved one suffer as well. So when you have a problem, think it as something meant to be happen. Try to face it, do not run away. Make yourself stronger. Live a long life. Don’t keep your inner lion inside, take him out and face the world. Do not let this depression monster to harm you.
Finally I want to say to the person who I listened to whenever I am sad, Please Rest In Peace Kim Jonghyun, you worked really hard!!! Thank you for everything.
Ahhh!!! It’s over…. Last week I and my batch mates finished our first module ‘marketing in the 21st century’ of our Master programme at University of Southampton. After 6 weeks, I thought I should end the module with a blog review. I hope this blog review will help potential students who are thinking to apply University of Southampton to get an idea. Read More
A robot got citizenship? YES! It happened. For the first time in the history, a humanoid robot succeeds to obtain citizenship. Ever since the news came out, Sophia thrived to make headlines all over the world news and people are giving different views right now. After watching the conference with Sophia, I questioned myself ‘Isn’t she creepy?’ This article will be advocate the argument of Sophia will be a threat to entire human race by giving a theoretical review. Read More
Present-day, there is a crisis in Sri Lankan education scenario. The swift enlargement of private higher education sector across the globe has turn out to be a happening in Sri Lanka as well. However, utmost of Sri Lankan public appear to give thumbs down to the idea of private universities. As a consequence, most public university students and related parties have commenced petitions to bring private higher education institutes to an end. This article will provide a theoretical and practical overview in response to the argument of indeed need of private universities in Sri Lanka which is an opposition towards Sri Lankan public deliberation. The results of the article support the observation of why private higher education has higher quality and standards than public higher education. Read More
Sri Lanka is a country widely known for its Tea, Coconut and Spices. Cinnamon is one of the key exporting items for consumption from Sri Lanka. Even though Sri Lankan cinnamon is acknowledged as the best cinnamon in the world, industry growth is exceedingly sluggish. In my opinion, be deficient in brand awareness of Ceylon cinnamon in global market is the reason for its slow growth. Throughout this blog, I will be discussing the need of brand awareness for Ceylon cinnamon to get well-liked and trendy in the 21st centurys’ global market.